Anxiety and girlfriend

[The Raven]

I recall when I had a crush on a girl and I used to see her often in the school yard but one time I saw her in the city and she was walking with her friend. It is an area where you can walk in circle because there are no cars and she kept walking and walking and I was too afraid to approach her. It was physically difficult for me to deal with stress. But somehow I stood up and came forward to ask her out. It didn't went as well as I planned but still we went on a date next week.

Anyone got exp on this?

 

[Henrywrites]

This is the situation with the crush that we have some of the time. I had almost a similar experience, and that didn't end up with her going on a date with me as she turned me down. It was one situation that I am not going to forget anytime soon as it hurt me then.

 

[Commode K]

It is the fear of being turned down that keeps we guys from approaching a lady w like. And we carry it in our minds for a long time. When you resign yourself to know that there are two possible outcomes to this. Being rejected or being accepted. And you are ready to accept anyone. You would easily approach any lady.

 

[Fidelia]

I can feel what you guys go through having to approach a lady you like. The possibility of being turned down is stressful mentally to guys. When I notice a guy has a crush on me. I create an environment that he would be comfortable around me to express himself. And if I am turning down, I do so very nicely so that you don't feel depressed.