That one person?

I have come to the understanding that humans are communication beings. We feel happier and more productive when the line of communication is better. How do you feel when someone that you have built a strong communication channel with starts changing and acting like they don't care about your existence again? Does it bother you?
 
Yes, it can be disheartening when someone you have a strong communication bond with starts to change and act as if they don't care about your existence. It can be bothersome and leave you feeling disconnected and uncertain about the relationship.
 
What I would do is try as much as possible to find out what's wrong and see if it's something that can be fixed between us. If it happens that she's not willing to talk to me about it, then I will take it that she's fed up with the relationship. I will move on with my life.
 
Debashis said:
Yes, it can be disheartening when someone you have a strong communication bond with starts to change and act as if they don't care about your existence. It can be bothersome and leave you feeling disconnected and uncertain about the relationship.

Sometimes, you will be asking yourself what you did and where you got it all wrong without knowing the answer. Life where someone you used to talk to almost every day, changing to where you can't talk to them anymore, can be strange and confusing. You will keep asking yourself what you did wrong.
 
It gets worse for clingy people like us. You see that person as your support system and you feel so free to talk about anything with the person. And the person suddenly detaches. I would feel so pained. It might make me question my rationality for a while. But I know for sure that I would always move on.
 
I have had a few occasions where those who I have classed as close friends and those who I communicate with regularly have stopped with no given reason and it does give you an awful feeling. I remember feeling upset but also confused as well when it came to the communication stopping.
 
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