I think the transition to adulthood has been especially tough for Millennials, and it has definitely taken a toll on mental health. A lot of us (including me) grew up with the expectation that we’d follow a certain path—graduate, get a good job, buy a house, start a family—but the reality has been way different. The cost of living has skyrocketed, wages haven’t kept up, and many of us are dealing with student loan debt on top of everything else. It’s no wonder anxiety and burnout are so common.
Take homeownership, for example. It used to be seen as a milestone of stability, but now it feels out of reach for so many. The pressure to “have it all together” by a certain age, while barely making ends meet, is overwhelming. And for those who do manage to buy a home, the financial stress doesn’t stop—mortgages, maintenance, and unexpected costs can pile up quickly.
Marriage and parenthood come with their own challenges. Many Millennials are delaying or rethinking these milestones altogether, either because of financial instability or because they want to prioritize their mental health. And for those who do take those steps, the lack of work-life balance, childcare costs, and relationship pressures can make things really tough. I’ve seen friends struggle with postpartum depression, burnout from juggling work and parenting, or even relationship strain from financial stress.
As for support systems, I think more accessible mental health care is a huge one. Therapy should be affordable and not feel like a luxury. Financial literacy programs could help people navigate things like homeownership and budgeting without feeling like they’re drowning. Workplace policies that encourage work-life balance, paid parental leave, and mental health days would also make a difference. Most of all, I think we need more open conversations about how hard adulthood can be—so people don’t feel like they’re failing just because their journey looks different from what they expected.
Success looks different for everyone so we shouldn't be judging them based on a list of expectations we had years and years ago.