Huge mistakes

[The Raven]

My issue with impulsive decision making is taking a huge toll on my life. At one point of my life I can be loved by many but then in a split of a second, just because there was an impulsive thought, I made more than ten people hate me and spit on me (which I understand). But, none of them will ever listen to me or understand me, nor they care to know why I did what I did.

How to cope with this?

 

[Hazel]

I'm really sorry you're going through this—impulsive decisions can have long-lasting impacts, especially on relationships. To cope, start by reflecting on what triggered those actions and what led to the shift in behavior. Acknowledge the consequences and be kind to yourself, growth takes time. While it might feel impossible to mend relationships, taking responsibility for your actions without expectation can sometimes open doors. Focus on rebuilding trust, even if it means doing so from a distance.

 

[Min George]

That's why it is always advised that decisions should not be taken at the heat of the moment. It has the potential to always be a decision that would affect one and every other person around him or her negatively. As the OP has said, no one would bother to understand such decisions. They focus on the consequences.

 

[Nomad]

Well, sometimes I make impulsive decision and these decisions can turn detrimental sometimes and cost me dearly. My main problem is I cannot say no and I easily believe in people. However, I am glad that this does not happen too frequently and sometimes I can be very harsh while taking decision. Self control, especially mind control, is very important.

 

[eLdavis]

Impulsive behavior has caused a lot of damage in relationships and so on, there are times i have taken certain actions out of impulse and it ends up causing some damage, so i am currently learning how to be a lot more calmer.

 

[Fidelia]

People with impulse disorders should try to be more aware of themselves and try to be calmer in situations. Obviously, the person at the other end is also human and is bound to react to wrong impulsive decisions. And sometimes, it can damage relationships for life.